0349pm.....library
waaa....amat sejuk libry time ni...tp atleast tak la seteruk dok dlm cadaver room... adehh..tak tahan nye dgn formalin tu...bisa menerobos jauh dlm hidung...meleleh air mata...adeh....
.....meleleh air mata....ttba trigt pada awk...(-_-)... sayu nye jumpe awk dlm keadaan mata awk berair...sayu...sayu dlm kesabaran yg tggi... hari ni another step abg buat demi merealisasikan pernikahan kita... abis klas biochem pkul 1000am td trus abg g libry penuhkan detail2 borang nikah abg...g jumpa kakyat mntak surat pengesahan bujang n pegesahan alamat hostel...adeh kne perli abes2san kat STAD..huhuhu takpe..abg nak siapkan b4 ayg blk kedah...
adeh...sejuk la plak libry nih...takpe..tahan2..sket je lg nak naip...
emmm...wan...mr.r yg penah enter ur life sometimes ago...(baru je tgk fs awk..just now...)....
"awan dah ready tinggalkan bintang.:-).jgn lupa jemput kenduri kawin ye..kalau tak,nak mengamuk satu opis..hehe"....
"wah..dah ada `guard' ni.hehehe"....
....dan sms2 dia..
"dah la 'curik' tiqah, pas2 nak guard2 lak..belom akad nikah lg..heheh... hurm,insyaallah mlm ni ke sy letak la...X pon dlm mase terdekat ni.. nak kumpul pic dulu.."..............
.....i can accept it...mmg abg curik awk...tp abg tak curik awk dlm keadaan awk masih berpunya...itu bkn abg... abg curik awk...tika mana awk single... tika mana awk alone...n abg enter into ur life... tika mane ayg jd pendgr yg baik bg abg...dgr masalah2 abg...luahan hati abg tentang pgalaman abg bertemu dgn pelbagai ragam wanita...
'atiqah...abg dah ckup matang berhadapan dgn khidupan ni.. i can accept dat R still nak kwn dgn ayg...sgt boleh menerima...tp jgn la R buat lebih dr seorg kwn shud behave...tp ayat2 dia buat abg terkilan...abg dah ckup blajar dgn pgalaman2 abg b4 dis... n i hope abg takkan ulang lg d same mistake...dats y abg really jaga hubungan kita ni...sbb abg blajar...R....zaman dia dah berakhir..takde perkara yg perlu ayg kesalkan sbb ayg dah bg peluang yg lebih dr ckup buat dia mengenali ayg...tp dia ignore...n now bkn lah masa yg seswai utk dia come back...n cover2 seolah2 still macho...its me who win...n abg bersyukur ALLAH temukan abg dgn awk...amat..amat sgt bersyukur...usahla tangiskan lg...sbb abg tak sggup tgk air mata ayg mgalir sbb laki lain....abg sedih...yg amat sgt...lg2 now ayg tgh sbuk nak exam..he shud not be like dis...ayg...abg mntak ayg delete no hp dia n akaun fs dia bkn sbb abg jeles... kalu bnar la abg jeles melulu, dah lame abg delete semua akaun lelaki dlm fs ayg...
tp dats not me...abg bkn jenis mngongkong..tp abg jenis berhati2...sbb abg dah selalu sgt dikecewakan...n i dun want it happen again..abg tak penah n takkan halang ayg kwn dgn sesape pun...tp berbatas...dats wut shud happen...sptutnya da sampai ketahap ni, masalah R bkn lagi dinamakan masalah, tp dinamakan history....
abg harap ayg dpt muhasabah kmbali...abg dah ckup tolerate dlm hal ni...ayg mntak abg izinkan R tepon tgh2 malam...berat amat nak izinkan tp sbb abg paham masih ade perkara yg belum selesai antara ayg dgn dia...yg masih tergantung,...jd abg benarkan 10 minit...abg tggu...tggu...tggu dan trus tggu...45 minit passing by...hati terdetik...apelah agaknye dibualkan....(adus jeles bangat seh....abg pujuk hati...abg kenal atiqah...n abg ade faith pd atiqah...itu yg abg pegang...)... and after dat ayg call abg to say sorry...leganya hati hanya Allah yg tahu.. atiqah ckp itu adalah yg terakhir...(i dunno wut u mean by yg terakhir cuz......hari ni again he appear wif kata2 yg amat pedas untuk abg dgr sebagai future hubby ayg)
....abg nak lupakan hari ni...sbb hari ni tak bez...abg serah pada ayg utk nilai... abg serah pd ayg juga utk letak R dimana...(abg cuma suggest ayg delete no hp dia, n dun reply his msg so dat he realize dat u r not d same atiqah..n i hope awk akan tapis btol2 komen2 dia....cuz u r getting marry...besar takrifan marry tu...sebesar cabaran untuk kearahnya..)...
hmmm...dah tak tahan sejuk dah ni...nak blk bilik dah..abg bkn nak pressure ayg...cuz abg really cncern abg ur exam...abg cuma bg suggestion utk ayg kuar dr masalah yg buatkan air mata ayg mgalir td...(wpun kadang2 terasa ayg backup dia lebih dr abg...takpe...mgkin ayg tak sedar)... i do hope ayg struggle exam ni btol2 bcuz it is not juz ur future... but....OUR...(^_^)...emmm dah tak tahan sejuk...i shud go now..mlm ni perlu pergi HTAA jumpa pesakit...nak praktis ape dah blajar block ni...mujur abg safwan n kak su sudi bwkkan.. leh ajar sket... (i really wanna strugle dis block...sbb abg nak bahagiakan ayg ....my wife-to-be yg amat abg cintai...ang nak berjaya dlm hdup..bkn utk abg sorang..tp utk umi, mak, abah2 n adik bradik n yg utama....ayg abg yg bucuk2 ni ni...(^_^)...
0442pm...menuju ke motor..
SARANGHAE YO NUR 'ATIQAH...ARIFIN SARANGHAE YO...
0256am....
hening nye pg ni..sunyi rasenya..tanpa ada bunyi ape pun melainkan kipas yg ligat berputar (bkk 2 je...du werry..heheeh)..disimfonikan dgn lagu inspirasi hati yg dinyanyikan dehearty.... bagai membuai memori abg pd cinta yg kita bina selama ini...hmm..teringat balik satu persatu kenangan yg pernah kita lalui...pernah dulu kite bekerja bersama dibwh payung MEDCY..tnpa ade sebarang 'rase' dihati.. hari demi hari..mggu demi mggu...bulan demi bulan...tahun berganti tahun...satu persatu pngalaman hidup...mgajar abg erti sebenar kehidupan ini... sekejap rasanya...sape sgka...arifin dan 'atiqah yg tak pernah disagka ade pape ttba buat pengumuman mahu bersatu dibawah ikatan pernikahan... kalau ade yg dgr ura2 tentang kite pun, berkelip2 mata utk mempercayainya..
tp......hati ini bersyukur...walaupun 'atiqah bkn cinta pertama arifin, tp d moment u enter into my life n my heart,itu detik yg amat bermakna...bkn tak pernah abg ketuk kepala dok pikir..."hey ipin, r u sure??? ko giler ape... sape ko nak berpacaran dgn smbody berlatar belakang agama yg hebat"....
tp benar....cinta itu mgatasi semua..ntah mcm mane..abg biar diri ini mengenali, mendalami...menjiwai awk...walaupun dlm keadaan ragu2..trus terusan....dan....
kini...hati sudah amat teguh...amat tetap...Alhamdulillah...ade jalan yg Allah tunjukkan buat kite... tersenyum seorang ble mngenang semuanya... saat kite manja...saat kite berkongsi semuanya...saat kita gaduh besar (dgn perangai abg yg tepahape ntah)...semua tu buat abg tersengih sorg... (^_^) indah sgt....
berbekal keyakinan mahu tegakkan agama...kite decide untuk marry.. seawal ini... again...abg ketuk kepala (kepala lutut je la...sakit la ketuk kepala sendri).. say "ko ipin biar btol...kali ni ko mmg giler...byk benor duit ko nak tggung makan pakai anak bini...diri ko dgn fmly ko pun tak tertanggung...ko mmg crazy!!!".....
hmmm...tp..awk...awk la yg yakinkan abg betapa indahnya alam perkahwinan jika nak dbanding hubungan cinta tnpa iakatan sah ni... (ish...dan dan je lagu 'wanita' by 'dehearty' kuar..huhuhuh)...
07122008....baling kedah...nah!!! seawal ini...tp abg redha.. ini urusan Allah.. bersyukur amat diri ini.. air mata ramadhan amat berkat... sujud penuh kesyukuran abg panjatkan tatkala abg dapat brita dr ayg yg mak abah dh decide tarikh untuk kita.... maunye tak terkezuuuttt!!! tgh2 celebrate raya gathering batch abg, dpt pgilan yg amat menggembirakan ni... tak buang masa..trus ang call umi... hehehheeh trigt lg umi 'hhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa' panjang kat abg time tu.. ( tak silap 12 harakat kot)....dlm kepala abg dah dok pikir msti serabut la kepala abg 46 hari mndatang ni...tp tak!! semuanya smooth sgt2...bagai dirancang lame... step by step...btol2 ikut flow...canteqq!!! (jap..nak pasang lagu 'canthek' la yg ayg bg dlu..........ok..dah)
....counting days for our big event ever...07122008..its our turn now.. kite jeles bile satu2 kwn kita Allah satukan...tiap hari doa kite panjatkan...n now...comes our turn.. ALHAMDULILLAH...WA SYUKURILLAH..BERSYUKUR PADAMU YA ALLAH... tak dpt nak digambar betapa berbunga nya hati abg ni menanti hari itu.. tahniah buat kita...
....dan takziah juga atas tggungjwb BESAR yg bakal kite dua tggung...(haa padan muka kita...sape suh mggatal...hihihihi).... ayg,abg akan cuba sentiasa bersma ayg.... sma2 harungi alam baru kita.. igtkan abg dgn kenangan2 kite ni andai ayg nampak abg terlalai...(great!!! lagu permaisuri hatiku skrang by hijjaz)...hmmm..
Permaisuri Hatiku
Di antara kekasih pilihan dihati
Punyai budi penghias diri
Wajahnya lembut biasan perkerti yang tinggi
Indahnya perhiasan dunia
Diantara diriku juga diri-mu
Hanya mengharapkan cinta yang Satu
Ku kan binakan mahligai impian-mu
Oh.. sayang ikhlaskanlah hati-mu
Malu-mu bernilai
Kata-mu berhikmah
Hati-mu tulus suci dan murni
Hanya diri yang halal
Engkau serahkan segala
Untuk mencari redha Allah
Benarlah cinta buta melalaikan
Tanpa memikirkan batas syariatnya
Semuanya itu hanya ujian didunia
Ia adalah mahar untuk kita ke syurga
Oh? Kau Permaisuri di hati-ku
Di dunia ini engkau penghibur
Menjunjung kasih amanah Ilahi
Ku pasti akan terus menyayangi
Terima kasih ucapan ku beri
Kau hadiahkan ku cahaya hati
Ku pimpin tangan-mu oh kasih meniti hari
Semoga kita dapat bersama
Sampai kepada-Nya disyurga sana
Tuhan kekalkanlah
Permaisuri hati ku
Untuk menemani dalam mengapai cinta-Mu
......demi cinta suci kite....jadilah permaisuri hati abg...ye syg..abg harapkan ia kan kekal... sampai kite ketemu semula di jannah Allah... insyaallah... robbi yasser wala tu 'asseer ya kareem... moga Allah permudahkan.... I LOVE U... ARIFIN LOVE U 'ATIQAH... (p/s: jeles amat bile awk cntct R dlu...amat...)
0329am.....hening pagi diteruskan lagi... time to study now!!! yeah!!! towards our better future...
Since I reverted to Islam I’ve often done tons of research to know how to become the best wife I possibly can Inshaállah. I’ve noticed it’s very easy to find compiled lists of what a wife should and shouldn’t do but also noticed how hard it is to find that list for brothers. Why does everyone concentrate on the wife? Wife must obey the husband, wife should look pretty for husband, wife must keep a clean home, blah blah blah the list goes on. I’m not saying that the list isn’t in any way wrong because I try my best to practice those duties as a wife but I think “some” brothers also should remember they have duties more than just bringing in the money. So as to a few requests I’ve gotten from sisters here is a list I was able to compile from two articles written by scholars.
“Among His signs is the fact that he has created spouses from among yourselves, so that you may find tranquillity with them; and he has put love and mercy between you. In that are signs for people who reflect.”
[Qur'an 30:21]
“They (wives) are garments for you, while you are garments for them.”
[Qur'an 2:187]
“From among the believers are those who have the kindest disposition and are the kindest to their families- such are those who show the most perfect faith. “The best among them are those who are kindest to their wives.” [Bukhari and Muslim]
1. The first and worthiest condition of marriage to be fulfilled by the husband is to “keep the promise or promises he made to the wife at the time he married her.
This is an order of the Prophet (saaws) according to the hadith: “ahaqqu al-shuruti an tufu bihi ma astahlaltum bihi min al-furuj”
2. Maintenance and protection, responsible for the welfare of the wife as prescribed in the Qu’ran.
“Men shall take full care of women with the bounties which Allah has bestowed more abundantly on the former than on the latter, and with what they may spend out of their possessions….”. [Qur'an 4:34]
Husband is financially responsible for the feeding, clothing and shelter of the wife and children. The wife has no obligation to financially contribute to the household unless she has the means and wishes to do so. Treat her generously,
The Prophet (saaws) said that the best gift or charity (sadaqa) is that spent on one’s wife.
3. Spend time with her, give her time for marital relations. Husbands don’t stay at home full time and shouldn’t expect the wife too either. Take her places that are good for your family and let her enjoy time off from her duties also. Give her a break!
“…….There is no amusement which is praiseworthy except three, namely training a horse, sporting with one’s wife and shooting arrows with a bow.” [Abu Da'ud, Ibn Majah and Baihaqi]
In illustration of this practice, Aisha (raa) records that on more then one occasion she and the Prophet (saws) ran races and sometimes she won and sometimes he won. Most men nowadays consider it far beneath their dignity to play any sort of game with their wives, and their marriages are the duller and poorer for it.
4. Don’t order her to do something that is against Islam.
The Prophet (s) said: “No obedience is due to creatures in disobedience of the Creator” (la ta`atan li makhluqin fi ma`siyat al-khaliq).
5. Be patient with your wife!
“Live with them on a footing of kindness and equity. If you take a dislike to them, it may be that you dislike a thing while Allah brings about through it a great deal of good.”
[Qur'an 4:19]
Remember she is human and will make mistakes just as everyone else. No one can be perfect. She will have bad days, support her on those bad days and be patient with her. Don’t dwell on the dislikes, instead focus on the likes!
6. Respect your wife and pay attention to her needs the way you would like her to respect you and your needs.
7. Be faithful in your marriage. Show your wife that you are obeying Allah (swt) at all times.
“Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and to be mindful of their chastity: verily this will be most conductive to their purity (and) verily Allah is aware of all that they do.” [Qur'an 24:30]
“From among the believers are those who have the kindest disposition and are the kindest to their families- such are those who show the most perfect faith. “The best among them are those who are kindest to their wives.” [Bukhari and Muslim]
8. Help with household chores
Aisha (raa) was asked by Al-Aswad b. Yazid what the Prophet used to do in the house. She replied: “He used to work for his family, that is serve his family, and when prayer time came, he went out for prayer.” [Bukhari]
Remember that it is not a wife’s duty to clean or cook. It is the husband’s responsibility to provide servants to do these things. If a wife decides to clean and cook then this is a gift to her husband, please be thankful to her!
9. Don’t make a fuss about the food your wife cooks for you. She works hard preparing it!!
“Allah’s Messenger never found fault with food. If he liked something, he ate it, and if he disliked it, he just abstained from it.” [Muslim]
10. When she is sick be sympathetic and patient with her as she is with you in times of illness and pains.
Aisha (radiallahu ‘anha) reported that whenever she was sick, the Prophet (saws) would come to her to show his sympathy. Nor, was he ashamed to let it be known that his love for his wife was greater then his love for any other human being. It is recorded in the Hadith collections of Bukhari and Muslim that someone asked the Prophet: “Who among all the people is most beloved by you?” And he said “Aisha”.
11. Never tell secrets of the household or of the husband and wife.
12. Strive to acquire and keep her trust.
13. Protect her honor and do not put her in the position where it could be compromised.
The Prophet (saaws) said that Allah will not ever let him enter Paradise who cares little who shares his wife’s privacy.
14. Exercise patience and forgiveness in times of disagreements and disputes.
15. Avoid excess jealousy.
The Prophet (saaws) said: “Do not be excessively jealous of your wife lest evil be hurled at her on your account” (la tukthir al-gheerata `ala ahlika fa turama bi al-su’i min ajlik) and he said: “Allah is jealous and the believer is jealous; and Allah’s jealousy is that the believer should not go to that which Allah has forbidden for him” (inna Allaha yagharu wa al- mu’minu yagharu wa gheerat Allahi in ya’tiya al-mu’minu ma harrama `alayhi).
16. Do not stay away from your wife or keep her in suspense without her consent.
“Turn not away (from your wife) altogether, so as to leave her hanging. If you come to a friendly understanding and practice self-restraint, then Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Merciful” (4:129).
17. Do not beat your wife.
The Prophet (saaws) indicated that if a man must beat his wife it should be more or less symbolic, with something like a toothbrush.
The Prophet (saaws) himself very much disliked the beating of wives, and never beat any of his own. In Abu Da’ud’s collection of Hadith he is reported by Laqit B. Sabrah to have said:
“Admonish your wife, and if there be any good in her she will receive it; and beat not your wife like a slave.”
In another Hadith from Ayas b. Abdullah he specifically said:
“Do not beat Allah’s female servants (i.e women)” [Abu Da'ud, Ibn Majah]
“Do not strike your wife in the face.”
18. Your wife doesn’t have to stay locked up in the home all day.
The following Hadith is narrated by Aisha (raa):
“Umar once criticised the Prophet’s wife Saudah for going out, saying he had recognised her in the street. So she appealed to the Prophet (saws) for support and he supported her saying: “Women have the right to go out for their needs.” [Bukhari]
Similarly the Prophet (saws) allowed his wives and other women to go out to the Mosques for their prayers. He also advised other men:
“Do not prevent the female servants of Allah (i.e Mosques)” [Muslim]
19. Educate your wife in terms of Islam and stop her from going against Islam.
“O you who have attained to faith! Ward off from yourselves and your families that fire (of the hereafter) whose fuel is Human beings and stones.” [Qur'an 66:6]
In this respect a husband has a duty to ensure that his wife is fully educated as a Muslim either by teaching her himself or by arranging for her Islamic education by other means.
Islam has given the man authority as the head of the family, and he is expected to abide by the Qur’an and Sunnah and endeavour to ensure that his family do not violate Islamic norms of behavior.
20. Care for your wife’s sexual needs. Believe it or not this is an obligation!
The Prophet (saaws) warned against rushing to gratify one’s pleasure and forgetting that of one’s wife. He also disliked that the husband should quickly withdraw from his wife afterwards, as it is a strain upon the wife. If she asks for intercourse, he should not refuse.
Inshaállah married brothers and sisters will strive to remember their duties in their marriage. When something goes wrong in a home it not only effects the household but it ripples out into the community and spreads.
Add more if you like in the commenting area inshallah
“Among His signs is the fact that he has created spouses from among yourselves, so that you may find tranquillity with them; and he has put love and mercy between you. In that are signs for people who reflect.”
[Qur'an 30:21]
“They (wives) are garments for you, while you are garments for them.”
[Qur'an 2:187]
“From among the believers are those who have the kindest disposition and are the kindest to their families- such are those who show the most perfect faith. “The best among them are those who are kindest to their wives.” [Bukhari and Muslim]
1. The first and worthiest condition of marriage to be fulfilled by the husband is to “keep the promise or promises he made to the wife at the time he married her.
This is an order of the Prophet (saaws) according to the hadith: “ahaqqu al-shuruti an tufu bihi ma astahlaltum bihi min al-furuj”
2. Maintenance and protection, responsible for the welfare of the wife as prescribed in the Qu’ran.
“Men shall take full care of women with the bounties which Allah has bestowed more abundantly on the former than on the latter, and with what they may spend out of their possessions….”. [Qur'an 4:34]
Husband is financially responsible for the feeding, clothing and shelter of the wife and children. The wife has no obligation to financially contribute to the household unless she has the means and wishes to do so. Treat her generously,
The Prophet (saaws) said that the best gift or charity (sadaqa) is that spent on one’s wife.
3. Spend time with her, give her time for marital relations. Husbands don’t stay at home full time and shouldn’t expect the wife too either. Take her places that are good for your family and let her enjoy time off from her duties also. Give her a break!
“…….There is no amusement which is praiseworthy except three, namely training a horse, sporting with one’s wife and shooting arrows with a bow.” [Abu Da'ud, Ibn Majah and Baihaqi]
In illustration of this practice, Aisha (raa) records that on more then one occasion she and the Prophet (saws) ran races and sometimes she won and sometimes he won. Most men nowadays consider it far beneath their dignity to play any sort of game with their wives, and their marriages are the duller and poorer for it.
4. Don’t order her to do something that is against Islam.
The Prophet (s) said: “No obedience is due to creatures in disobedience of the Creator” (la ta`atan li makhluqin fi ma`siyat al-khaliq).
5. Be patient with your wife!
“Live with them on a footing of kindness and equity. If you take a dislike to them, it may be that you dislike a thing while Allah brings about through it a great deal of good.”
[Qur'an 4:19]
Remember she is human and will make mistakes just as everyone else. No one can be perfect. She will have bad days, support her on those bad days and be patient with her. Don’t dwell on the dislikes, instead focus on the likes!
6. Respect your wife and pay attention to her needs the way you would like her to respect you and your needs.
7. Be faithful in your marriage. Show your wife that you are obeying Allah (swt) at all times.
“Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and to be mindful of their chastity: verily this will be most conductive to their purity (and) verily Allah is aware of all that they do.” [Qur'an 24:30]
“From among the believers are those who have the kindest disposition and are the kindest to their families- such are those who show the most perfect faith. “The best among them are those who are kindest to their wives.” [Bukhari and Muslim]
8. Help with household chores
Aisha (raa) was asked by Al-Aswad b. Yazid what the Prophet used to do in the house. She replied: “He used to work for his family, that is serve his family, and when prayer time came, he went out for prayer.” [Bukhari]
Remember that it is not a wife’s duty to clean or cook. It is the husband’s responsibility to provide servants to do these things. If a wife decides to clean and cook then this is a gift to her husband, please be thankful to her!
9. Don’t make a fuss about the food your wife cooks for you. She works hard preparing it!!
“Allah’s Messenger never found fault with food. If he liked something, he ate it, and if he disliked it, he just abstained from it.” [Muslim]
10. When she is sick be sympathetic and patient with her as she is with you in times of illness and pains.
Aisha (radiallahu ‘anha) reported that whenever she was sick, the Prophet (saws) would come to her to show his sympathy. Nor, was he ashamed to let it be known that his love for his wife was greater then his love for any other human being. It is recorded in the Hadith collections of Bukhari and Muslim that someone asked the Prophet: “Who among all the people is most beloved by you?” And he said “Aisha”.
11. Never tell secrets of the household or of the husband and wife.
12. Strive to acquire and keep her trust.
13. Protect her honor and do not put her in the position where it could be compromised.
The Prophet (saaws) said that Allah will not ever let him enter Paradise who cares little who shares his wife’s privacy.
14. Exercise patience and forgiveness in times of disagreements and disputes.
15. Avoid excess jealousy.
The Prophet (saaws) said: “Do not be excessively jealous of your wife lest evil be hurled at her on your account” (la tukthir al-gheerata `ala ahlika fa turama bi al-su’i min ajlik) and he said: “Allah is jealous and the believer is jealous; and Allah’s jealousy is that the believer should not go to that which Allah has forbidden for him” (inna Allaha yagharu wa al- mu’minu yagharu wa gheerat Allahi in ya’tiya al-mu’minu ma harrama `alayhi).
16. Do not stay away from your wife or keep her in suspense without her consent.
“Turn not away (from your wife) altogether, so as to leave her hanging. If you come to a friendly understanding and practice self-restraint, then Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Merciful” (4:129).
17. Do not beat your wife.
The Prophet (saaws) indicated that if a man must beat his wife it should be more or less symbolic, with something like a toothbrush.
The Prophet (saaws) himself very much disliked the beating of wives, and never beat any of his own. In Abu Da’ud’s collection of Hadith he is reported by Laqit B. Sabrah to have said:
“Admonish your wife, and if there be any good in her she will receive it; and beat not your wife like a slave.”
In another Hadith from Ayas b. Abdullah he specifically said:
“Do not beat Allah’s female servants (i.e women)” [Abu Da'ud, Ibn Majah]
“Do not strike your wife in the face.”
18. Your wife doesn’t have to stay locked up in the home all day.
The following Hadith is narrated by Aisha (raa):
“Umar once criticised the Prophet’s wife Saudah for going out, saying he had recognised her in the street. So she appealed to the Prophet (saws) for support and he supported her saying: “Women have the right to go out for their needs.” [Bukhari]
Similarly the Prophet (saws) allowed his wives and other women to go out to the Mosques for their prayers. He also advised other men:
“Do not prevent the female servants of Allah (i.e Mosques)” [Muslim]
19. Educate your wife in terms of Islam and stop her from going against Islam.
“O you who have attained to faith! Ward off from yourselves and your families that fire (of the hereafter) whose fuel is Human beings and stones.” [Qur'an 66:6]
In this respect a husband has a duty to ensure that his wife is fully educated as a Muslim either by teaching her himself or by arranging for her Islamic education by other means.
Islam has given the man authority as the head of the family, and he is expected to abide by the Qur’an and Sunnah and endeavour to ensure that his family do not violate Islamic norms of behavior.
20. Care for your wife’s sexual needs. Believe it or not this is an obligation!
The Prophet (saaws) warned against rushing to gratify one’s pleasure and forgetting that of one’s wife. He also disliked that the husband should quickly withdraw from his wife afterwards, as it is a strain upon the wife. If she asks for intercourse, he should not refuse.
Inshaállah married brothers and sisters will strive to remember their duties in their marriage. When something goes wrong in a home it not only effects the household but it ripples out into the community and spreads.
Add more if you like in the commenting area inshallah
hari ni kite g bl cincin..
kuar lps asar, ajak fina teman..
then, drive..g amik ahjushi kt mahalllah im 2..(hee, ktrg takde kete, jdk kidnap fina jap)
em, then, g megamall..trs menuju ke kedai2 emas yg ade.. byk pilihannya..
at last, ktrg g kdai wah chan..
hmm.plh punya pilih punya pilih...jumpala yg berkenan..hihi
ahjushi tak byk songeh pun, ageshi ni..itu la , inila..hee..acam2 !! sori ahjushi =p
then, kol mak (dua2 pihak utk tny pndpt, n diluluskan)
semasa upacara pembayaran dijalankan, maka berlakulah usaha membodek china yg menjual tuh..trnkan harga la, bg kotak cantik2 la, bg harga student la, bg hadiah kahwin la (dgn kurangkan harga - point fina).. ahjushi ni ha..byk plk permintaan dia.. =p tp apek tu layan je..hmm,nape?
ha, bak kt ahjushi, 'customers always right!' *wink!*
then, aft bl, ktrg trs blk..sbb fina ada hal..n tak solat maghrib lagi..
tp before that, ahjushi belanja sundae strawberry.. =D
emmm..sedaaaap!! mcm selalu..
tq ahjushi for this day!! =)) syg ahjushi. mmuah!
Bermulalah Cinta Hakiki
Posted by Ustaz Muhammad Fauzi under Celoteh
Ramai kenalan saya dari kalangan pelajar dan yang baru bergelar siswazah melangsungkan perkahwinan dalam tiga empat bulan ini. Alhamdulillah bertambah bait muslim di Malaysia. Ada lagi yang sedang dalam perjalanan ke situ. Saya doakan moga segala yang dihajati termakbul dan berlangsung dengan penuh keberkatan.
Seorang senior sewaktu saya belajar di Mesir pernah menceritakan kepada saya pandangannya terhadap pasangan baru. Katanya, dia akan tersenyum setiap kali melihat gelagat pasangan baru. Saya pun senyum mendengar kata-katanya, walau pun saya sebenarnya tidak faham kerana saya belum berkahwin lagi ketika itu. Hari ini setelah 11 tahun mendirikan rumahtangga, saya rasa saya faham maksudnya kerana saya juga selalu tersenyum melihat gelagat atau mendengar cerita-cerita tentang pasangan baru.
Pasangan baru adalah pasangan yang hidup dengan kegembiraan penuh. Memang begitulah sepatutnya. Dan selayaknya saya tersenyum mendengar cerita seorang rakan yang ‘terlajak ceria’ sepanjang hari perkahwinannya. Sebelum akad dia senyum, semasa akad dia senyum, selepas akad dia senyum, jumpa sesiapa sahaja dia senyum. Ketika tidak ada sesiapa menyapanya pun dia senyum.
Pasangan baru tidak sanggup berpisah walau seminit. Jumpa rakan dan tetamu di majlis perkahwinan, tangan kanan salam tetamu dan tangan kiri terus memegang tangan isteri. Lepaskanlah sekejap, biarlah dia jumpa rakan dan tetamu wanita. Suami kata: “Eh bukan saya. Isteri saya yang tak nak lepaskan tangan saya ni.” Iyalah …. sama-samalah tu.
Pasangan baru ketika diajak rakan-rakan untuk makan di kedai, dia akan membalas: “Temankan minum sekejap boleh kot.” Tak lapar ke? Lapar tu, tapi memang sepatutnya dia buat begitu sebab pasangannya pun sedang menahan air liur melihat rakan-rakan wanitanya menjamu selera. Kedua-duanya tidak berjanji untuk makan bersama, tapi masing-masing tidak sampai hati untuk makan takut pasangannya lapar keseorangan.
Begitulah gelagat pasangan baru. Kehidupan baru yang perlu diterokai. Awalnya manis. Hujungnya mereka yang akan tentukan samada terus manis atau akan berubah rasanya.
Pasangan baru akan melalui satu fasa; fasa ini akan mendatangkan perasaan yang ganjil bagi mereka. Ganjil kerana mereka akan terbuai-buai di satu alam lain yang tidak pernah mereka lalui. Alam ini terpisah dari alam yang mengelilingi mereka. Mungkin sebab itulah pasangan yang baru mendirikan rumahtangga ada ‘bulan madu’. Saya tidak faham sangat tentang ‘bulan madu’ kerana saya bernikah ketika isteri sedang menghadapi peperiksaan tahun akhir. Dua minggu selepas nikah pula saya ke UK dan Ireland memenuhi jemputan untuk memberi pengisian selama hampir sebulan. Beberapa hari selepas pulang ke rumah sesudah itu, terpaksa ke perkhemahan musim panas di Ra’sul Barr, Sinai selama lima hari. Selepas itu, isteri pula masuk perkhemahan. Tambah lagi lima hari. Itu bukan ‘bulan madu’ rasanya. ‘Bulan madu’ ni mungkin macam seorang kenalan saya yang berkahwin dan kemudian bercuti di Summit Hotel sebelum sambung bercuti di Gold Coast, Australia. Tetapi apa pun bentuknya; bersama di hotel dan pantai atau jauh dipisahkan oleh lautan … semua pasangan baru rasanya akan merasai perasaan ini.
Alangkah baiknya jika ianya berterusan. Tetapi tabiatnya bukan begitu. Tidak lama, ia akhirnya akan kembali seperti biasa dan dari situ bermulalah cabaran yang hanya orang-orang yang ikhlas niat di dalam mendirikan rumahtangga akan mampu menghadapinya.
Saya kongsikan di sini nasihat yang pernah saya berikan kepada beberapa pasangan yang baru mendirikan rumahtangga (di antaranya yang berbulan madu di Summit Hotel tu).
1. Bukan mudah untuk seorang manusia duduk sepanjang hayatnya bersama seorang lagi manusia lain. Ke sana sini bersama. Makan bersama dan berkongsi semua perkara. Pasangan di Barat diikat dengan sebab-sebab material (seks, kebendaan, tumpang glamour dan sebagainya). Dengan sebab itulah maka mereka mudah bercerai. Tetapi bagi orang Islam, kita diikat dengan ikatan akidah dan matlamat ubudiah kepada Allah. Alangkah kuatnya ikatan ini bagi yang menghayatinya. Oleh itu bermujahadahlah agar ikatan ini kekal di dalam ikatan tersebut.
2. Isteri mempunyai kerenahnya dan begitulah juga suami. Belajarlah untuk saling memahami dan menghormati pasangan. Berusaha juga untuk saling bekerjasama dalam semua perkara. Dr Yusof Qardhawi mempunyai pandangan yang lain berkaitan pengurusan rumah oleh wanita di mana beliau berpendapat bahawa suami juga mempunyai tanggungjawab meringankan beban isteri di situ kerana wanita juga hari ini memainkan peranan mencari rezeki membantu beban suami.
3. Seorang muslim soleh bertemu dengan seorang muslimah solehah, hasil yang sentiasa diharapkan adalah bait muslim dengan segala ertinya. Tetapi kadang-kadang ianya tidak jadi begitu kerana kaedah yang betul adalah; bait muslim ini perlu dibina seumpama mereka membina keperibadian mereka ketika mereka bujang sebelum ini. Anggaplah bait muslim tersebut seumpama bayi yang baru lahir. Bagaimana kedua-dua suami isteri tersebut membentuknya, itulah hasilnya. Hidupkan rumahtangga dengan al-Quran dan ibadah. Jauhi hiburan yang melalaikan. Warnai dengan kasih sayang dan kesetiaan
Posted by Ustaz Muhammad Fauzi under Celoteh
Ramai kenalan saya dari kalangan pelajar dan yang baru bergelar siswazah melangsungkan perkahwinan dalam tiga empat bulan ini. Alhamdulillah bertambah bait muslim di Malaysia. Ada lagi yang sedang dalam perjalanan ke situ. Saya doakan moga segala yang dihajati termakbul dan berlangsung dengan penuh keberkatan.
Seorang senior sewaktu saya belajar di Mesir pernah menceritakan kepada saya pandangannya terhadap pasangan baru. Katanya, dia akan tersenyum setiap kali melihat gelagat pasangan baru. Saya pun senyum mendengar kata-katanya, walau pun saya sebenarnya tidak faham kerana saya belum berkahwin lagi ketika itu. Hari ini setelah 11 tahun mendirikan rumahtangga, saya rasa saya faham maksudnya kerana saya juga selalu tersenyum melihat gelagat atau mendengar cerita-cerita tentang pasangan baru.
Pasangan baru adalah pasangan yang hidup dengan kegembiraan penuh. Memang begitulah sepatutnya. Dan selayaknya saya tersenyum mendengar cerita seorang rakan yang ‘terlajak ceria’ sepanjang hari perkahwinannya. Sebelum akad dia senyum, semasa akad dia senyum, selepas akad dia senyum, jumpa sesiapa sahaja dia senyum. Ketika tidak ada sesiapa menyapanya pun dia senyum.
Pasangan baru tidak sanggup berpisah walau seminit. Jumpa rakan dan tetamu di majlis perkahwinan, tangan kanan salam tetamu dan tangan kiri terus memegang tangan isteri. Lepaskanlah sekejap, biarlah dia jumpa rakan dan tetamu wanita. Suami kata: “Eh bukan saya. Isteri saya yang tak nak lepaskan tangan saya ni.” Iyalah …. sama-samalah tu.
Pasangan baru ketika diajak rakan-rakan untuk makan di kedai, dia akan membalas: “Temankan minum sekejap boleh kot.” Tak lapar ke? Lapar tu, tapi memang sepatutnya dia buat begitu sebab pasangannya pun sedang menahan air liur melihat rakan-rakan wanitanya menjamu selera. Kedua-duanya tidak berjanji untuk makan bersama, tapi masing-masing tidak sampai hati untuk makan takut pasangannya lapar keseorangan.
Begitulah gelagat pasangan baru. Kehidupan baru yang perlu diterokai. Awalnya manis. Hujungnya mereka yang akan tentukan samada terus manis atau akan berubah rasanya.
Pasangan baru akan melalui satu fasa; fasa ini akan mendatangkan perasaan yang ganjil bagi mereka. Ganjil kerana mereka akan terbuai-buai di satu alam lain yang tidak pernah mereka lalui. Alam ini terpisah dari alam yang mengelilingi mereka. Mungkin sebab itulah pasangan yang baru mendirikan rumahtangga ada ‘bulan madu’. Saya tidak faham sangat tentang ‘bulan madu’ kerana saya bernikah ketika isteri sedang menghadapi peperiksaan tahun akhir. Dua minggu selepas nikah pula saya ke UK dan Ireland memenuhi jemputan untuk memberi pengisian selama hampir sebulan. Beberapa hari selepas pulang ke rumah sesudah itu, terpaksa ke perkhemahan musim panas di Ra’sul Barr, Sinai selama lima hari. Selepas itu, isteri pula masuk perkhemahan. Tambah lagi lima hari. Itu bukan ‘bulan madu’ rasanya. ‘Bulan madu’ ni mungkin macam seorang kenalan saya yang berkahwin dan kemudian bercuti di Summit Hotel sebelum sambung bercuti di Gold Coast, Australia. Tetapi apa pun bentuknya; bersama di hotel dan pantai atau jauh dipisahkan oleh lautan … semua pasangan baru rasanya akan merasai perasaan ini.
Alangkah baiknya jika ianya berterusan. Tetapi tabiatnya bukan begitu. Tidak lama, ia akhirnya akan kembali seperti biasa dan dari situ bermulalah cabaran yang hanya orang-orang yang ikhlas niat di dalam mendirikan rumahtangga akan mampu menghadapinya.
Saya kongsikan di sini nasihat yang pernah saya berikan kepada beberapa pasangan yang baru mendirikan rumahtangga (di antaranya yang berbulan madu di Summit Hotel tu).
1. Bukan mudah untuk seorang manusia duduk sepanjang hayatnya bersama seorang lagi manusia lain. Ke sana sini bersama. Makan bersama dan berkongsi semua perkara. Pasangan di Barat diikat dengan sebab-sebab material (seks, kebendaan, tumpang glamour dan sebagainya). Dengan sebab itulah maka mereka mudah bercerai. Tetapi bagi orang Islam, kita diikat dengan ikatan akidah dan matlamat ubudiah kepada Allah. Alangkah kuatnya ikatan ini bagi yang menghayatinya. Oleh itu bermujahadahlah agar ikatan ini kekal di dalam ikatan tersebut.
2. Isteri mempunyai kerenahnya dan begitulah juga suami. Belajarlah untuk saling memahami dan menghormati pasangan. Berusaha juga untuk saling bekerjasama dalam semua perkara. Dr Yusof Qardhawi mempunyai pandangan yang lain berkaitan pengurusan rumah oleh wanita di mana beliau berpendapat bahawa suami juga mempunyai tanggungjawab meringankan beban isteri di situ kerana wanita juga hari ini memainkan peranan mencari rezeki membantu beban suami.
3. Seorang muslim soleh bertemu dengan seorang muslimah solehah, hasil yang sentiasa diharapkan adalah bait muslim dengan segala ertinya. Tetapi kadang-kadang ianya tidak jadi begitu kerana kaedah yang betul adalah; bait muslim ini perlu dibina seumpama mereka membina keperibadian mereka ketika mereka bujang sebelum ini. Anggaplah bait muslim tersebut seumpama bayi yang baru lahir. Bagaimana kedua-dua suami isteri tersebut membentuknya, itulah hasilnya. Hidupkan rumahtangga dengan al-Quran dan ibadah. Jauhi hiburan yang melalaikan. Warnai dengan kasih sayang dan kesetiaan
'assalamualaikum..
Mengumumkan majlis pernikahan, saudara AHAMD ZAINOL ARIFIN BIN IBRAHIM (MBBS/2nd year) bersama saudari NUR 'ATIQAH BINTI MD HUSSIN (PMCY/2nd year), bertempat di kampung halaman pihak perempuan di BALING, KEDAH pada 7 Disember 2008 hari AHAD. Adalah diharap agar semua sahabat brothers & sisters mendoakan agar majlis tersebut berjalan seperti yg di rancang dan mendoakan kebahagian kami dan setrusnya dapat terus fokus pada pelajaran kami. kepada sahabat2 yg berkesempatan untuk bersama2 pada majlis tersebut, bolehlah menghubungi kami.. Mengenai Walimah, tarikh masih belum ditetapkan.. jika sudah ditetapkan, akan di beritahu kemudian.
wallauhua'lam...wassalam' -pengumuman dlm blog medic, kelas pmacy n kls medic..23102008,10am..
hope for the bezt..
bismillahi tawakkalna 'ala ALLAH...
Mengumumkan majlis pernikahan, saudara AHAMD ZAINOL ARIFIN BIN IBRAHIM (MBBS/2nd year) bersama saudari NUR 'ATIQAH BINTI MD HUSSIN (PMCY/2nd year), bertempat di kampung halaman pihak perempuan di BALING, KEDAH pada 7 Disember 2008 hari AHAD. Adalah diharap agar semua sahabat brothers & sisters mendoakan agar majlis tersebut berjalan seperti yg di rancang dan mendoakan kebahagian kami dan setrusnya dapat terus fokus pada pelajaran kami. kepada sahabat2 yg berkesempatan untuk bersama2 pada majlis tersebut, bolehlah menghubungi kami.. Mengenai Walimah, tarikh masih belum ditetapkan.. jika sudah ditetapkan, akan di beritahu kemudian.
wallauhua'lam...wassalam' -pengumuman dlm blog medic, kelas pmacy n kls medic..23102008,10am..
hope for the bezt..
bismillahi tawakkalna 'ala ALLAH...
awk...terima kasih byk2 sbb byk berkorban utk merealisasikan impian kite membina mahligai bahgia kite.. moga Allah pandang ia sbagai ibadah.. sy tetap disisi awk, membntu awk mane yg mampu...sy tetap dhati awk...selamanya insyaallah.. I LOVE U
Gelpren: bang, andaikata saya menjadi bintang…
Boipren: abang kan jadi Ultramannya
Gelpren:kenapa pulak, sepatutnya abg jadi bulan purnamalah
Boipren:Salah tu, kan ultraman ada bintang kepunyaannya
Gelpren: oh gitu… .kalau saya jadi bunga
Boipren:Abang jadi tukang kebunnya
Gelpren:Kenapa bukan kumbang
Boipren:Sebab kumbang keje dia hanya menghisap madu..sedangkan tukang kebun kerjanya menyiram dan membaja bunga tu setiap hari
Gelpren:Wah! hebatnya abg nie… begitu pandai berkata-kata
Setelah puas berbicara dan bergurau senda, bangunlah pasangan kekasih tersebut untuk bersiar-siar… tiba2 si makwe tersepak sebatang tunggul kayu, dan jatuh tersembam ke tanah… .bedebik!!!!!! macam nangka busuk daa!!!!
Gelpren:Aduh!!!! sakiknya abe, (awek tu rupanya minah kelate)
Boipren: cilako! punyo tunggul kayu… .buto ko!!!!!, tak nampak ko oghang nak lalu(rupa2nya si pakwe tu orang N9)… sayang takde apa2 ke?
Gelpren:Takde sikit je bang… cuma luka sikit jer dahi nie
Boipren:Nasib baik tunggul kayu, kalau orang tadi memang nahas abg kejekan.
Memang telah ditakdirkan jodoh mereka berdua… selang beberapa bulan selepas itu pasangan kekasih ini pun mendirikan rumahtangga… 2 tahun kemudian, si isteri teringat kembali kisah yang lalu sewaktu membawa anak mereka bersiar-siar di tasik yang sama ketika bercinta dahulu,
Isteri:Bang, ingat lagi tak tempat nie?
Suami:Masakan abg boleh lupa
Isteri:Kalau saya jadi bintang
Suami:Abang jadi beginilah
Isteri:Kenapa bukan Ultraman…
Suami:Kat Malaysia mana ada Ultraman… kat Jepun adalah… .apa lah awak nie
Isteri: kalau saya jadi bunga
Suami: Abang jadi beginilah
Isteri:Apa abg nie… cakaplah betul2
Suami:Apo kono eh dongan ekau nie… dah buang tebiat ko, tak nampak anak kito tu… .kalau dah abg jadi Ultraman ngan ntah apo-apo ntah laie, sapo nak bagi makan kek anak kito tu… .yang mengado2 nak jadi bintang tu buek apo
Isteri: Abe nie tok supo dulu… .tok rometik lasung, mete2 la saya nie doh tok comey lagi…
Suami: Takdo nak romantik kosmetik do… .
Selepas puas duduk sambil berbalah, maka berjalan pulanglah keluarga tersebut… .tiba2 si isteri tadi tersepak sebatang tunggul kayu(mungkin tunggul yg sama), lalu jatuh gedebuk!!!! ke tanah…
Isteri:Aduh abe sakik nyo!!!!!
Suami:Apo kono eh awak nie… .buto ko, punyo bosa tunggul tu tak nampak ko!!!!!!!!!!
=) .. time will tell, for sure..
Boipren: abang kan jadi Ultramannya
Gelpren:kenapa pulak, sepatutnya abg jadi bulan purnamalah
Boipren:Salah tu, kan ultraman ada bintang kepunyaannya
Gelpren: oh gitu… .kalau saya jadi bunga
Boipren:Abang jadi tukang kebunnya
Gelpren:Kenapa bukan kumbang
Boipren:Sebab kumbang keje dia hanya menghisap madu..sedangkan tukang kebun kerjanya menyiram dan membaja bunga tu setiap hari
Gelpren:Wah! hebatnya abg nie… begitu pandai berkata-kata
Setelah puas berbicara dan bergurau senda, bangunlah pasangan kekasih tersebut untuk bersiar-siar… tiba2 si makwe tersepak sebatang tunggul kayu, dan jatuh tersembam ke tanah… .bedebik!!!!!! macam nangka busuk daa!!!!
Gelpren:Aduh!!!! sakiknya abe, (awek tu rupanya minah kelate)
Boipren: cilako! punyo tunggul kayu… .buto ko!!!!!, tak nampak ko oghang nak lalu(rupa2nya si pakwe tu orang N9)… sayang takde apa2 ke?
Gelpren:Takde sikit je bang… cuma luka sikit jer dahi nie
Boipren:Nasib baik tunggul kayu, kalau orang tadi memang nahas abg kejekan.
Memang telah ditakdirkan jodoh mereka berdua… selang beberapa bulan selepas itu pasangan kekasih ini pun mendirikan rumahtangga… 2 tahun kemudian, si isteri teringat kembali kisah yang lalu sewaktu membawa anak mereka bersiar-siar di tasik yang sama ketika bercinta dahulu,
Isteri:Bang, ingat lagi tak tempat nie?
Suami:Masakan abg boleh lupa
Isteri:Kalau saya jadi bintang
Suami:Abang jadi beginilah
Isteri:Kenapa bukan Ultraman…
Suami:Kat Malaysia mana ada Ultraman… kat Jepun adalah… .apa lah awak nie
Isteri: kalau saya jadi bunga
Suami: Abang jadi beginilah
Isteri:Apa abg nie… cakaplah betul2
Suami:Apo kono eh dongan ekau nie… dah buang tebiat ko, tak nampak anak kito tu… .kalau dah abg jadi Ultraman ngan ntah apo-apo ntah laie, sapo nak bagi makan kek anak kito tu… .yang mengado2 nak jadi bintang tu buek apo
Isteri: Abe nie tok supo dulu… .tok rometik lasung, mete2 la saya nie doh tok comey lagi…
Suami: Takdo nak romantik kosmetik do… .
Selepas puas duduk sambil berbalah, maka berjalan pulanglah keluarga tersebut… .tiba2 si isteri tadi tersepak sebatang tunggul kayu(mungkin tunggul yg sama), lalu jatuh gedebuk!!!! ke tanah…
Isteri:Aduh abe sakik nyo!!!!!
Suami:Apo kono eh awak nie… .buto ko, punyo bosa tunggul tu tak nampak ko!!!!!!!!!!
=) .. time will tell, for sure..
Kamu seperti .... (apa ye? em, comet orang.. =p)
Terus menghantuiku
Ke mana pun tubuhku pergi
Kau terus membayangi aku
Tepat diriku biarkan kamu
Mengambil hatiku
Aku tak bisa memusnahkan
Kau dari pikiranku ini
Di dalam kesunyian aku masih merasa ramai
Kerana adanya diri kamu(yes, it's u!!)
Kau genggam hatiku
Dan kau tuliskan namamu
Kau tulis namamu (ahmad zainol arifin ibrahim)
Tubuhku ada di sini
Begitu juga jiwaku
Penuh sangat hati ini
yang hanya kurasakan
Kau sememangnya tinggal di hatiku..selamanya..(insyaALLAH)
love u..bahagia..thank you so much .. =D
Terus menghantuiku
Ke mana pun tubuhku pergi
Kau terus membayangi aku
Tepat diriku biarkan kamu
Mengambil hatiku
Aku tak bisa memusnahkan
Kau dari pikiranku ini
Di dalam kesunyian aku masih merasa ramai
Kerana adanya diri kamu(yes, it's u!!)
Kau genggam hatiku
Dan kau tuliskan namamu
Kau tulis namamu (ahmad zainol arifin ibrahim)
Tubuhku ada di sini
Begitu juga jiwaku
Penuh sangat hati ini
yang hanya kurasakan
Kau sememangnya tinggal di hatiku..selamanya..(insyaALLAH)
love u..bahagia..thank you so much .. =D
Ya Allah, Robbul 'Izzati...bantu lah kami berdua.. setelah sejauh ini kami usahakan, jgnlah Engkau membantutkan lagi Ya Allah.. Engkau Maha Agung, dan Engkaulah Maha Mengetahui..andai ini yg terbaik buat kami,satukanlah kami atas ikatan pernikahan yg Rasul-Mu anjurkan..YA Allah,Kau tuhan kami,tuhan sekelian alam...ameen
Ya Allah
Jika dia benar untukku
Dekatkanlah hatinya dengan hatiku
Jika dia bukan milikku
Damaikanlah hatiku
Dengan ketentuan-Mu
Ya Allah
Engkaulah tempat kubergantung harapanku
Kuharap diriku sentiasa di bawah rahmat-Mu
Jika dia benar untukku
Dekatkanlah hatinya dengan hatiku
Jika dia bukan milikku
Damaikanlah hatiku
Dengan ketentuan-Mu
Ya Allah
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Kuharap diriku sentiasa di bawah rahmat-Mu
hmm...plan yg dirancang sempena eidulfitri tempoh hari tak brape berkesan..mgkin ada hikmah nya... takpe la...ade lagi masa..yg penting jgn sekali2 putus asa dlm tegakkan Islam..usah terus hanyut...moga Allah ampun dosa kita yg lalu...ameen..
syg..perancangan terbaru yg abg bgtau dlu abg akan laksanakan sungguh2..moga dipermudahkan.. wutever happen,i know u r there 4 me.. hmm...counting days...my big day...our day...
syg..perancangan terbaru yg abg bgtau dlu abg akan laksanakan sungguh2..moga dipermudahkan.. wutever happen,i know u r there 4 me.. hmm...counting days...my big day...our day...
I LOVE U TOO
I MISS U TOO...
syg,abg ikhlas mencintaimu.. semua yg abg lakukan ni, semua yg abg korbankan ini hnya utk awk..utk memiliki awk...menjd permaisuri hati abg... jgn la syg risau atau sedih.. insyaallah doa syg sentiasa mengiringi abg.. abg syg kamu...amat... percayalah... u are my best supporter after umi... i love u 'atiqah
I MISS U TOO...
syg,abg ikhlas mencintaimu.. semua yg abg lakukan ni, semua yg abg korbankan ini hnya utk awk..utk memiliki awk...menjd permaisuri hati abg... jgn la syg risau atau sedih.. insyaallah doa syg sentiasa mengiringi abg.. abg syg kamu...amat... percayalah... u are my best supporter after umi... i love u 'atiqah
